
Recently I presented "3 Speaking Mistakes Leaders Make" to a room of driven business women. Afterward, I asked the group one question online: what is the one idea you are putting into practice, and how is it going?
One attendee answered right away. She runs a wellness business built on a service that is brand new to most people. From the ABC list in the talk, she chose to focus on confusion. Her goal is simple: drop the jargon, simplify how she describes her business, and make the benefits easy for anyone to grasp.
That is one of the smartest commitments a leader can make. And it applies far beyond her business.
Jargon feels like clarity to the person using it
Every field has its own language. Finance has its acronyms. Operations has its metrics. Healthcare, manufacturing, technology; each one builds a vocabulary that feels efficient to insiders.
Here is the catch. The more fluent you become, the more that language sounds like plain English in your own head. You simply hear it as the right words.
Your listeners hear a gap between what you said and what they understand.
At the end of last week, I had a conversation with a marketing expert I truly admire. He is brilliant, and his approach to business inspires me. Midway through our conversation, he mentioned his ICP.
I paused. ICP. What is an ICP? Oh, right. Ideal Client Profile.
It took only a few seconds for my brain to connect the dots. Yet in those few seconds, he kept talking, and I lost part of what he said next.
Now picture that moment multiplied across a room full of your team members or clients. Every acronym creates a tiny pause. Every pause costs a piece of the message.
This is the same failure of translation I named in the first post of this series, and the same dropped baton from the relay race in my last post. Jargon is one of the most common reasons the baton hits the track.
What confusion costs you in the room
When people feel lost, they rarely raise a hand. Instead:
They nod along and fill the gaps with their own guesses
They save their questions for a side conversation after the meeting
They hesitate to act, or they act on the wrong priority
They decide the message was meant for someone else
For a business owner, confusion means a prospect walks away unsure what you offer. For a leader, it means a team walks away unsure what to do next. Either way, momentum slows.
Three swaps that replace jargon with clarity
Name the outcome before the method. Lead with what changes for the listener. "Clients leave feeling calmer and more rested" lands faster than a description of the technology behind the session.
Trade the acronym for the everyday word. If you would explain a term to a new hire, explain it to your audience too. "Days sales outstanding" becomes "how long it takes customers to pay their invoices."
Test your message on someone outside your world. Share your key message with a friend, a family member, or a colleague from another department. Ask them to repeat it back in their own words. Wherever their version drifts from yours, you have found your jargon.
Simple is a sign of mastery
Some leaders worry that plain language makes them sound less expert. The opposite holds true. Anyone can hide behind complex terms. The marketing expert I spoke with knows his field inside and out. One acronym still created a gap. It takes real command of a subject to explain it so clearly that a newcomer grasps it the first time.
My clients discover this quickly. When they simplify their language, their audiences lean in, ask sharper questions, and take action sooner.
The attendee who chose confusion as her focus is doing exactly this work. She understands a simple truth: people value what they understand.
